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  • Writer's pictureSeanne N. Murray, Esq.

The Vessel's Wisdom: Embracing Self-Care for a Life of Purpose

In our lives, we often come across various symbolisms and metaphors that help us understand complex concepts and ideas. One such powerful analogy is that of a vessel. Vessels are not merely containers; they represent the perfect embodiment of giving and receiving, taking good care of oneself and others, making space for more, not letting our own well run dry, and healing any cracks in the armor.


Giving and Receiving


Just as a vessel can be used to pour out its contents and share with others, it can also receive and be filled. This symbolizes the delicate balance of giving to others while also being open to receiving support, love, and nourishment from those around us. In our relationships and interactions, it's essential to remember that both giving and receiving are equally important for fostering strong, healthy connections.


Taking Care of Self and Others

A vessel needs to be well-maintained to function properly. Similarly, we must take care of ourselves physically, mentally, and emotionally to be able to support and care for others effectively. Self-care is not selfish; it is a necessary prerequisite for being a pillar of strength and support for those who rely on us. By nurturing ourselves, we become better equipped to extend that nurturing to others. Personally, I prioritize my well-being by going to acupuncture regularly, taking luxurious baths, and watching what I eat to maintain optimum health.


Making Space for More


A vessel that is already full cannot receive anything else. In life, we sometimes need to create space by letting go of things that no longer serve us, such as negative thoughts, unhealthy relationships, limiting beliefs, or an overabundance of things. This process of decluttering our mental, emotional, and physical space allows room for growth, new experiences, and abundance. By making space within us, we open up to the possibility of positive change and transformation.


Not Letting the Well Run Dry


If we constantly give without replenishing our own resources, we risk burning out. Being passion driven, I reallly try not to work myself to death, a habit I have to fight. It's crucial to prioritize self-care and seek ways to refill our own "vessel" so that we can continue to support others sustainably. This may involve setting boundaries, taking time for hobbies and relaxation, or seeking support from others when needed. By ensuring that our own well doesn't run dry, we can show up fully and consistently for those who matter most to us.


Healing Cracks in the Armor


When a vessel is damaged, it may leak or become less effective. Similarly, when we experience emotional wounds or setbacks, it's essential to take time to heal and repair those "cracks" in our armor. This process of self-reflection, therapy, or other healing practices can help us become whole again and better equipped to face life's challenges. I went through a significant healing process supported by my family, a treasure that many do not have access to. By acknowledging and addressing our vulnerabilities, we build resilience and strength of character.


Finding Purpose Through Self-Care


As we learn to embrace self-care and nurture ourselves, we begin to discover our true purpose in life. I believe in the power of prayer, positive thinking, manifestation, and receiving information from God and our ancestors, with the intent to share with and offer comfort to others.

When we are well-nourished and balanced, we can tap into our inner wisdom and align our actions with our deepest values and aspirations. Self-care allows us to show up as our best selves, ready to make a positive impact on the world around us.


By prioritizing self-care, we cultivate the clarity, energy, and resilience needed to pursue our passions and serve others with compassion and authenticity. We become vessels of change, inspiring others to prioritize their own well-being and live lives of purpose.


The vessel analogy serves as a beautiful reminder of the importance of balance, self-care, personal growth, and resilience in our lives. By nurturing ourselves and others, we can create a more fulfilling and purposeful existence. So, let us strive to be vessels that give generously, receive graciously, and maintain our own well-being as we navigate the journey of life. In doing so, we unlock the wisdom within and become beacons of inspiration for all those we encounter.

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